Building a stable relationship or friendship with a woman involves a lot of strategies before you can win her heart.
The word women can be referred to be
complicated creatures in which men cannot understand easily due to their nature
of behavior and attitudes in relationship or friendship. Women seems difficult
to be approached or walked up to easily for communication.
They do not accept first time words
easily from men since they feel they might be treated like trash before men.
Women are hard to get, hardest to
impress, difficult to predict and know how to keep things close to their
hearts. Although overtime men have been known to talk less and keep more
secrets, women share only things they are comfortable with, and whatever will
make them appear vulnerable especially to the men folks, they keep it a secret.
There are a lot of relationships that do
not work out due to some things women expect from their men but, the men can
not point out what exactly the women want since they do voice it out. Women
might not say these things, that’s their secrets, but women expect their men to
know and do them. A man can only please his woman if he knows these secrets
below and applies them.
1. Women Love Surprises
In the same way, a man doesn’t like a boring relationship, a woman expects
spontaneous changes in daily routines. Women like crazy surprises that can lift
up a moody day. Surprises can come in small and big ways: grab her from the
back when she is doing the dishes in the kitchen, pop the big question when she
least expects, leave her a gorgeous dress on the bed with a note saying ‘meet
me in the car’, then take her to a nice Chinese restaurant. These gestures make
her feel loved and add variety to the relationship, but she will never tell you
that.
2. Women Expect Men To Understand Their
Body Language/Gestures
Women are more sensitive than men when
they are in a relationship and they have a way of talking with their body. A
man who doesn’t understand his spouse’s body language will fail a thousand
times in trying to please her until he understands why she is wearing a
camisole in harmattan or why she kept her shopping list on his table, he can
not love her right.
3. Every Woman Wants An Honest Man
Often times men wonder why their girlfriends hastily opt out of the
relationship without prior notice. The truth is she has been observing him and
cannot stand a dishonest man. Women love to associate with virtuous men that
have good names as well as reputation. The word ‘virtuous’ is not synonymous
with women alone, men too can have that quality, and women want those kinds of
men. They want a man that will tell them every single detail of what happened
in the office, and not omit the real thing they want to hear.
4. Women Want To Be Cuddled More
For most men, cuddling is not their thing. They want to go all the way as
quickly as they can so they can achieve orgasm. But for the women, its the
opposite. In as much as she wants to reach orgasm, she prefers longer hugs and
kisses, fondling and prolonged foreplay before any other thing. This way, they
feel loved and do not see themselves as objects of satisfaction.
5. She Likes To Be Part Of Every
Decision
Do not be deceived that you as a man is the head of the family. Involving her in
making decisions that concern the relationship is one of the things she wants,
but will never say to you. It makes her feel important, and a part of the
ruling authority. Although it is natural for most men, especially Nigerian men
to decide on very important matters without consulting their better half. This
is not ideal and might be the reason she has been carrying a long face around
the house.
Bring her in, ask for her opinion and
come to a conclusion with her consent. But be cautious in involving her because
most women would want to overuse the opportunity and manipulate a decision to
the man’s detriment. All the same, she wants to be in charge someway, so give
her the door and hold the key. This goes a long way to suggest to the woman
that she is just not a figurehead but an important figure in the family.
Source: Ghanaown.com
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