As it has been accepted as a social media term for
super sexy and hot ladies who post their pictures on social media, it will surprise
you to know that the concept of slay queens has it root in the bible. In the bible a slay queen is also referred to
as a ‘strange woman’
So now let’s use some operational definitions for the
term ‘slay queen’
A slay queen according to the urban dictionary is a
young and naïve girl who apparently do not date broke men. They spend hours on snapchat and Instagram showing
off things they don’t even own. [definition 1]
A slay queen(s) are girls who do not have a wealthy
background but appears as if they do.
They use malicious acts to attain cash, drink expensive alcohol, procure
expensive cellphones, but back at home she’s a chicken chaser. [definition 2]
A slay queen is a beautiful but dumb young woman who
chases after wealthy men. [definition 3]
And finally a slay queen is an uneducated village girl
who chases after rich men and post selfies all day on snapchat and Instagram expensive
things they don’t own, they change their hair colour every 2 weeks. [definition
4].
Please note that these are not my own coined
definition, it’s in the dictionary (urbandictionary.com). Now that we all have an idea of who a slay
queen is, let’s zoom in to the article:
Even though most people have the mindset that slay
queens are gold diggers and opportunist (which may be true), there so many
lessons that can be learn from them;
·
A slay queen maximize their talent and
abilities: A slay
queen knows herself worth and believes in herself and what she can do. So if she has a beautiful face or a curvy
body shape, she will capitalize on her body, decorate it and present it or
market it to would-be clients. They use what
they have to their advantage. And as
they market themselves well, they will always get client who are willing to pay
for their service. In Mathew 14, a slay
queen develop her talent so well that she got a deal to dance before a great
king – to entertain him and his guest.
Unless you are extraordinary, it will be so hard for you to get an
opportunity to stand before a king. Lo
and behold this slay queen (Herodias daughter) danced to please Herod the king.
“A man’s gift will make room for him and bring him before great men” Pro 18:16
·
She is someone who knows the power of words: slay queens knows how to speak, the
choice of words to use, and the right tone of her voice under any
circumstance. She is a seductress and
her words are sweeter like honey and smoother than oil.
Just look at how a seductress seduce an
innocent young man:
“I have peace offerings with me; today I have paid my vows. So I came out to meet you, diligently to seek your face, and I have found you. I have spread my bed with tapestry, colored coverings of Egyptian linen. I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon. Come, let us take our fill of love until morning; let us delight ourselves with love. For my husband is not at home; he has gone on a long journey; he has taken a bag of money with him, and will come home on the appointed day.” So with such enticing and powerful words, any man will easily fall for this slay queen. She is a master of seduction.
·
She has the spirit of perseverance, persistence
and consistency: slay queens have this qualities.
They have the spirit of a He-goat; they are relentless and hardly do
they give up. They are able to see far
the goal ahead of them and will do anything possible to achieve it.
Samson was a strong man who cannot be
defeated even by armies but it took one slay queen, Delilah to make nonsense of
his God-given strength. She pestered him
with her words and pressed him day and night to reveal his secret behind his
strength but Samson lie to her every time she ask the question about his strength. But Delilah persisted until she got Samson to
reveal his secret and boom Samson fall into the trap of Delilah. #Persistence and #consistency is key in any
business you are doing.
Stay tuned and watch out for part 2
DISCLAIMER: the lady above is not a slay queen. She is an actress and a model. We are using her as a blog image.
Inspired by the teachings of Bernard
Elbernard Nelson Eshun.
INCREDIBLE PRINCE
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