1.
A healthy
relationship should help you to grow in Christ.
When you are in a healthy relationship your partner should help you to
get closer to God even more. An example
of a healthy relationship is when your partner will call you on phone and pray
with you. It can also be a relationship
where both you and your beloved will attend religious programs together. What
is more romantic than studying the word of God with your partner and exhorting
each other in the things of God through the word? A good relationship will also encourage you when
you are broken.
2.
In a healthy
relationship, the partners work on their communication. Relationship is key in every
relationship. The more you communicate
with each other, the more you build intimacy and rapport especially if it happens
to be a long distance. Even if it’s not
a long distance communication is what will help to solidify your
relationship. But the thing is
communication becomes challenging when one partner is the one making all the
effort to communicate. Both partners
should all involve in the communication process. Also in communication you talk about
everything and ask the right questions.
3.
In a healthy
relationship, you see your partner as a blessing. That your partner is a God sent angel in your
life. So esteem your partner above all
and treasure him or her as the best person in your life.
4.
In a healthy
relationship, you possess a strong desire to give to your mate. Love is demonstrated in giving just like how
God gave his only begotten son. So If
your partner is too stingy then advice yourself BUT it may also be that they
don’t have so get to know your partner well before you form a wrong perception
about them. In a healthy relationship,
it’s not only guys who are supposed to give gifts, the ladies too can also
give. What men can do, they can do it
even better. So what are the things that
we can give? Well you can give time,
give attention, you can give gifts, give care and many more.
5.
In a healthy
relationship, there is a genuine love for forgiveness. As a humans we are not perfect so mistakes
are bound to happen. But if it happens
or in other words if you partner hurt you, even though you are hurt but
forgiveness should flow easily.
Forgiveness should be a daily thing. Understand that those closest to us are the
ones who will hurt us the most. Forgive
as much as you are hurt because forgiveness is the only way for inner peace and
joy.
6.
In a healthy
relationship there is a passionate desire to see your mate succeed. You support each other to succeed and grow
together. There is no room for
envy. In a healthy relationship, you
find time to ask about your partner, his or her dreams and ambitions so you know
how you can push them to achieve their goals.
7.
A healthy
relationship honours the most important person in your life. Who is the most important person in your
life? Is it your parent, siblings or a
godfather? Then your partner should
respect and honour such people in your life.
You and your beloved should honour each other’s parent too. There is even a blessing for honouring
parent!
8.
Foundation of
equality and mutual respect. Yes
marriage is a partnership; it’s a democratic institution – make decisions
together, trust each other’s intelligence and flow together.
9.
There is an investment
of quality time. Find time out of your
busy schedule and have fun together.
Life is too short.
10. Strong sense of trust and commitment. In a healthy relationship you trust each
other soo much to the extent you are comfortable even if your partner is with
the opposite sex.
11. Be captivated by your mate. Be proud to take her out and celebrate
her. Be ready to take her out and
celebrate her. Be proud to introduce her
to your family and friends.
12. Fight is permissible in a healthy relationship. Sometimes we may argue, misunderstand each
other, and be mad at each other; well it’s normal in a healthy
relationship. But do not let any
misunderstanding last for 24 hours before you settle issues. Immediately you realize that you are wrong,
apologize quickly and settle your differences.
Enjoy you beautiful relationship. Trust this will help spice your relationship
and move it to another level.
Recommended for you: THINK TWICE!
Recommended for you: THINK TWICE!
Incredible Prince
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