STORIES FROM HIGH PLACES
The event was attended by dignitaries including government and international representatives. One of the colleagues made very good presentation which was applauded by everyone present. During the networking, one of the ministers walked up to her to congratulate her on the presentation she made.
They had a brief conversation about the lady’s personal projects and training opportunities. The minister became interested in the projects and offered to provide assistance and other platforms for her. They exchanged numbers after their conversation.
The lady made some contracts with other people as well because she saw it as an opportunity to build her network. Her colleague on the other was busy taking pictures with the guests.
On their way back to the office, the lady who made the presentation, out of excitement told her colleague about the conversation she had with the minister and how he had invited her to a networking event the following week. Her colleague became jealous of her.
Few days to the event, the lady through a mail asked the minister if she could attend the event with another person. She received a positive response and quickly told her colleague. On the day of the event, the minister was so happy to see them.
He made them sit at his table with other dignitaries. Before they left the event grounds, the lady introduced her colleague to the minister and they exchanged contacts afterwards.
Days after the event, the lady called the minister to confirm a meeting they had scheduled concerning a project for the youth. But all her calls, emails, messages went unanswered.
Unknowest to her, her friend had sent emails and WhatsApp messages to the minister, speaking ill about her and asking for money and other favours to the extent of paying personal visits to the minister and he [minister] was displeased with what was going on and felt disappointed in her.
He became indifferent towards the lady based on the information her friend gave him. He felt the lady wanted to use his position and kindness for her personal gain which in truth was a total contrast to the lady’s intentions.
She got to know all these through the minister’s personal assistant. She felt hurt and betrayed but didn’t know what to do. This was how the lady lost contact with a prospective helper because of what her friend said about her out of jealousy and envy.
LESSONS;
Do not introduce your valued contacts to just anyone, unless you are sure of maintaining your connection with those important people.
Not all testimonies are to be suddenly announced. Bridle your tongue at all times, especially at the peak of your emotions.
An untamed tongue breeds unnecessary envy and jealousy. Know whom to talk to and when;
Some places and or events are better attended alone.
In your bid to help others, make sure you don’t loose yourself and your opportunities.
Certain people or opportunities are strategically presented into our lives for a purpose, do well to protect and keep them.
You don’t need to tell everyone what’s going on for you. Not everyone is or will be happy for you. Not everyone is or will be happy for you. Sometimes learn to be silence.
Be careful of who you allow into your circle and space. Not everyone will genuinely wish you well.
Some people will have no problem with you so long as you are on the same level, but will suddenly grow uncomfortable when you seem to go ahead of them.
Be extra vigilant in all your dealings.
Dimming the light of others does not make your light shine extra brighter.
Do not be too simple to accept the report of others, put in an investigation effort before taking actions. When someone tells you something about another person, do well to investigate or gather information on your own.
Do not make hasty decisions based on hearsay.
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By: Bernard Elbernard Nelson-Eshun
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